What you say about others when they’re not present reveals everything about your character.
To implement this principle:
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Speak as if They’re Listening: Would your words change if they were in the room?
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Protect Reputations: Correct misinformation and defend others’ dignity.
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Avoid Gossip Traps: Redirect conversations toward facts or walk away.
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Build a Culture of Loyalty: Lead by example in how you speak of others.
My Assignment: Write a blog on how being loyal to the absent has earned you silent respect—and built deep trust.